If you are a plus sized woman, you know the torture of searching for clothing that makes you feel sexy. Even if you find great plus sized clothes, they will more often than not, be whatever the opposite of sexy is to you. While the landscape of curvy girl clothes is changing greatly every year. There is a lot of pressure out there for a curvy goddess to strap herself into Spanx just to make herself feel sexy or to make herself fit into clothing. There is of course the option of wearing a mu-mu or your grandmother’s clothes. That is always great for a woman that is trying to entice the eye of a gentlemen. This is a crime and a shame. Now don’t get me wrong, I am the girl that will not leave the house without my Spanx on cutting off the blood flow to my brain and limbs. My grandmother always said baby ain’t shit supposed to jiggle but Jell-O put a girdle on…. That ain’t cute. However as I get older I see so many women that are wonderful ladies that have one thing holding them back… there size. It makes me want to scream from the mountain tops. “LET YOUR INNER SEXY OUT” and don’t bother with the Spanx, they are too much of a hassle that you really don’t need in your life. You are a beautiful woman, and you deserve to feel sexy in anything that you wear. Don’t take added pressure from people to make you feel like you need to look a certain way to be sexy, it is all up to you.

Sexy is in your strut, the way you talk, holding your head high. Even moo moo can look good on a woman with (snaps fingers) attitude!

A lot of BBW women feel the need to wear these torture devices known as Spanx (including me) because they don’t have a flat tummy. It’s ok NOT to mummify yourself for a few hours every time you go out.

It is okay not to have a flat tummy. You will be a curvy goddess no matter what your stomach or thighs or arms look like. You are beautiful just the way you are and you do not need a device to make you feel that way. Spend some time searching for good clothing that makes you feel beautiful, and if you don’t find any that you like, look into having it custom made for you or if you are crafty look into making it yourself. There are ways that you can feel sexy in anything you wear, you just have to let that inner sexy out and people will feel your confidence. Having confidence in yourself will make you look even sexier and feel even better no matter what you are wearing.

Don’t fall victim to the trend of the Spanx, they are uncomfortable and unnecessary. If you are a BBW and you do not have a flat stomach, which is okay. Embrace it, don’t force it to be stuck in some uncomfortable space all day. How can you spend time trying to feel great and sexy, when you are uncomfortable? You can’t so why even bother trying. Just feel great in anything that you wear and you will be more comfortable and ready to take on anything that comes your way.

A couple of sites that I like to shop at on line are listed below. These boutiques are GREAT for TODAY’S sexy lady who wants to look it!